Ask and you shall receive.
Jump, and the net will appear.
But how does one know what to ask for? How do we know which way to jump?
Lately I feel like I’m being drawn down a really positive, dynamic path, moving in the direction of my dreams, but also it’s SLOW. There are roadblocks. There is unhappiness. I am not a patient person.
This makes me moody. I’m often grouchy during the day, when my energy is expended on activities that don’t fulfill me, in a space that drains me. I want to focus on positive messaging: mantras, “thinking the opposite,” finding something nice to say about everyone. I try to stay busy so I don’t fall into a hole of discontent. This week I find myself with little work to do, feeling tired and grumpy, hot and unhappy. I’m bummed. I have major unexpected expenses but no increase in income. I have groceries but no time to cook. I have homework but no time to read. I have rituals of self-care but no energy to perform them.
I want answers. I want to know with absolute certainty that another opportunity is on its way, that the money to fix my car will fall into my lap, that my insurance will cancel my waiting period so I can get medically necessary dental care! I want to know that through my pursuit of yoga, my creative explorations, the numberless incredible and uplifting conversations I have with friends and fellow yogis, that by actively pursuing a fulfilling and spiritual life my day-to-day will improve. Sometimes I know what to do. This week, I do not.
Yesterday when I started this post, I was feeling really distressed by the way my mood has changed regarding the situation I’m in. The week before last I was strongly moved by a righteous anger, the slap-in-the-face realization that something must change IMMEDIATELY. I got through that with positivity, a sense of gratefulness and hope and faith that as I create space for change, it has to happen. Last week, I carried that feeling over to a sense of general well-being, taking good care of myself, with enough work to do that I could stay busy.
But this week, I am BUMMED. I can’t get in touch with my guides. I have a major case of the blahs and possibly a head-cold or a touch of the chronic respiratory symptoms I’ve developed since starting this job. I’ve had very low energy. I can’t seem to focus on anything, including affirmations, guidance, mantra. I don’t know what to do. All I can think is, I don’t know what to do. And yet…
As I write this I am thinking about faith. Can faith be enough? Can the belief that all I have to do is keep walking and the road will rise up to meet me, be enough? Even when I don’t know exactly where I’m headed? Is it enough to have faith that I’m choosing the right path, or that the right path has chosen me, or that I’m being led down the best path regardless of whether I falter? I hope so.
I wanted this post to be about requesting clarification when seeking guidance. I have so many things to talk about that it’s difficult to choose a topic. I’m new here. I’ve decided it’s best to just sit down and write, and let the words shape themselves into a post. I trust that they will find a path and flow from beginning to end on the best possible course to completion.
Can I believe that of myself? Can that be enough?